Dear ableist
You should be glad that I exist.
Thanks to me, you have someone to blame for your problems. When the wages go down, services are cut and taxes go up, when the powers that be are corrupted and you feel helpless, I'm here for you to blame. Looking at me lets you target your anger.
Thanks to me, when you feel down, when you're tired of your boring life as a cog in the machinery of capitalism, when you're envious of those who you think are better off than you, I'm here for you to pity. Looking at me lets you feel lucky you aren't me.
Thanks to me, you can feel normal. When you're reminded of the ways in which you're not quite able to appear normal, unable to hide your individuality from the judging eyes and ears of your peers, I'm here for you to bully. Looking at me lets you hide.
Thanks to me, you can maintain the dividing lines. When you wish to separate those like me, highly verbal, gifted and holding high-tech jobs, from those like me, useless drains on society, stimming in corners and requiring expensive services, I'm here for you to dissect. Looking at me lets you perpetuate the divides.
Thanks to me, you can rationalise your desire to prevent others like me from being born. Looking at my difficulties with communication and managing my daily life, my inability to do certain things, my chronic pains, my very sparse social life, I'm here for you to prevent. Looking at me lets you condone eugenics.
...and in doing so make sure your children never need to look at me and never be challenged to start actually seeing me. As a person. As a human being. As an equal.
Written in a fit of rage.
PS: No points will be given for confusing the medicalised, fragmented and otherwise prejudiced views above with my actual opinions.

11 comments:
Yes. Spot on as usual. I haven't been able to write anything about Ashley yet, so much of what her parents have said about her is so close to what my parents said about me. And the insistence on `but her parents *love* her, so they must be doing the right thing' has had me in the corner screaming. You don't objectify someone you love, you don't refer to them as a fucking `pillow angel'. My parents called me - when talking to others - their `miracle baby'. I was never a person to them. Just because someone says they love their child, doesn't mean they do - actions show more than words.
Bravo! This one's a classic!
Well I'm afraid that you don't speak for me, thank goodness. I think my boys would be more than happy to get acquainted, assuming your Pokemon skills are up to the mark, but they would probably forgive you even if they weren't.
Cheers
This kicks *** in so many ways, I can't begin to sort them all out. Thank you.
Book Girl: It's not a response to what was done to Ashley, as I have no words for that yet, but it was a catalyst.
mcewen: I'm very glad. I wish it didn't apply to a single actual person. Then we'll have made some progress.
I can easily understand how the Ashley case would be a catalyst for you.
As for me, I really can't comment much. I'm still in shock over the Ashley case and how a load of people, some of which are aquaintances, are defending Ashley's parents, or even worse, saying they could consider doing the same. One of them is my ex-wife. I'm horrified.
Your comments were well stated! It is important that people not follow what rhetoric the medical profession spews, to justify inhumanity, eugenics and excuses for poor parenting.
Where does it end? If she cries too much, are they going to cut her vocal cords? If her legs get longer than the stroller, are they going to have them surgically shortened?
People should not be used as science projects, to try out 'new stuff'. The last time some institution allowed something like this, the perpetrators went on trial, in a city called Nurenburg.
Arlene Wilson: Please refrain from posting your blog entries as comments here. You have your own blog.
I just love this text. Magnificent. It's so true.
Is it ok if I put a link from my blog to yours?
trollhare: Thanks. Absolutely, no need to ask.
This is a good classic one!
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